Birth Control
How to prevent pregnancy.
Sex & STDs
How to stay safe & healthy.
At the Doctor
What to expect at Horizons.
Your Body
Your period & other changes.
Preventing Pregnancy
You have many options available, but it’s important to remember that only the condom can be used to prevent both pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. Send Horizons a message or give us a call to discuss which method is best for you.
Remember – preventing pregnancy does NOT mean you’re preventing sexually transmitted diseases!
Sex & STDs
People between ages 15-24 account for 50% of all new STDs. STDs or STIs (sexually transmitted diseases/infections) are diseases spread through sexual contact, which includes oral, anal and vaginal sex. Anyone (any gender, age, race) who is sexually active is at risk for transmitting a disease. The CDC has a comprehensive guide to STDs here, and womenshealth.gov offers a great guide on how to practice safer sex, and what to say if your partner doesn’t want to have safe sex!
STIs affect women and men of all ages and racial/ethnic backgrounds. Teenagers and young adults get STIs easier than older people. Also, young women who have sex with women are still at risk for STIs.
There are ways to reduce your risk of infection: wearing condoms properly, getting vaccinated for HPV, reducing your number of sexual partners, relationship monogamy, being tested regularly.
Some STIs have no symptoms, but can still cause serious health problems. This is why it is so important to get tested. Talk with your doctor or nurse if you have been sexually active in any way.
It is important to keep in mind that once you get treated you can get the STI back again if you continue to have sex, particularly if you have unprotected sex. Some STIs will never go away.
“I raise up my voice—not so I can shout, but so that those without a voice can be heard…we cannot succeed when half of us are held back.”
― Malala Yousafzai, the youngest-ever Nobel Prize laureate
OMG … PUBERTY???
Your body changes as you become a woman. Watch this short video, or click to learn more.
Your Period
What it is
The blood that leaves your body during your period is the blood and tissue that build up as the lining of your uterus each month. Your period flow can be light, heavy, or somewhere in between. Your periods may also vary in color. Sometimes menstrual blood will be light red and sometimes, dark red. It may also be heavy the first day or so of your period, and then get lighter. Periods usually last between three and five days, but it is normal to have periods that are either shorter or longer. It is also normal if your periods are not the same number of days each month.
When it Happens
Menstrual cycles are around 23 to 35 days, and each woman is different.
At first, your periods may not be regular; you may have two in one month, or have a month without a period at all. Periods will become more regular in time.
Keeping track on a calendar will help you to better know when to expect your next period.
What to do
Use the tabs below to explore the three products you can use. It is OK to be shy about buying these items at the store, but getting your period is a normal part of life. Need help getting started? Ask your mom, guardian, or an older sister which sanitary products she uses. It can also help to buy sanitary products with your mother/guardian or other trusted adult to make this experience easier. Keep in mind, they have been doing this for years!
– Some pads are thinner for days when your period is light, and some are thicker for when you are bleeding more. You can also use these thicker pads at night when you sleep.
– During the day, it is best to check your pad to see if it needs changing every couple of hours. It will need to be changed before it is soaked with blood.
– If you are concerned about any smell, changing pads often and keeping up good hygiene will help control this. You do not need to use deodorant pads.
– You probably don’t want to wear pads when you swim. They will soak up water and be bulky.
– Some tampons have a plastic or cardboard covering that makes it easier for you to put the tampon in. This is called the “applicator.” Do not leave the applicator inside your vagina.
– All tampons have a string at the end to help you take it out when it needs to be changed (at least every 4 to 8 hours).
– Tampons will not get lost in your vagina or “slip up.”
– You can wear tampons when you swim. Water does not enter your vagina.
It is VERY important that you use the tampon with the lowest level of absorbency for your needs. On the heavy days, you may need a “super” tampon and as your flow gets lighter, you may only need a “regular” tampon. Or, you may only need a “regular” tampon on your heavy days, and then can switch to a “junior” tampon for your lighter days. You will be able to tell what level of absorbency you need by how often you need to change your tampon.
Using tampons that are too absorbent or not changing them often enough can put you at risk of toxic shock syndrome (TSS). You can avoid TSS by not using tampons at all, changing them often, or by switching back and forth between tampons and pads. While the symptoms of TSS can be caused by many other illnesses, tell an adult and call a doctor if you are using tampons and have the following:
high fever that comes on all of a sudden
muscle pains
dizziness or fainting
a rash that looks like sunburn
bloodshot eyes
strange vaginal discharge (fluid)
feeling of confusion
Doctors treat TSS with antibiotics, and will examine your kidneys and liver to make sure they are working okay. Doctors will also treat your rash to help you heal. It is important to get medical help right away if you have any of the above symptoms
Some cups are for one-time use, while others can be used over and over.
Only wear a menstrual cup for a few hours at a time.
“I raise up my voice—not so I can shout, but so that those without a voice can be heard…we cannot succeed when half of us are held back.”
― Malala Yousafzai, the youngest-ever Nobel Prize laureate
What to Expect at the Doctor
It’s normal for your doctor to ask questions about your general health and any problems you may be having. The questions may be about:
General Health
What allergies you have or medicines you take, and questions about your health.
Your Period
If you’ve gotten your period, how long it lasts and how old you were when it started.
Sex
Whether you’ve ever had sex, and if you’ve ever been forced to have sex.
Your Body
Any unusual vaginal discharge (fluid), odor or itching, and the development of your breasts.
It is important to be honest so that they have all the right information about your health and body. Ask about your doctor’s confidentiality (privacy) policy before you begin.